I also learned about leadership and observed the personal interactions while in the peculiar environment of 150+ men, all between 18 & 40, confined to a structure that measures about 300 feet long. Which brings me to what I really want to write about: Openly gay people should be allowed to serve in the military.
First, it is an honor and a privilege to do so. It has been a great advantage to me, not only on my resume but in giving me confidence in the face of unfamiliar challenges.
Second, while on Billfish, there were two men who the crew believed were gay. One of them was, and one of them may not have been gay, but in any case, everyone thought he was. It did not rip the crew apart. It did not prevent unit cohesion. Even in a place where your privacy was zero. (During my last month on board I went to use the shower just as another officer was coming out, and another was using the stall in the same small room. I commented, "Someday I will have no idea what my coworkers look like naked.")
So it is a great opportunity, it is wrong to deny it to people because of their sexual orientation, and it can be fixed without harming our military readiness. Here's what the out going Chairman of the Joint Chiefs General Shalikashvili said two years ago:
I now believe that if gay men and lesbians served openly in the United States military, they would not undermine the efficacy of the armed forces. Our military has been stretched thin by our deployments in the Middle East, and we must welcome the service of any American who is willing and able to do the job.Amen brother.
Full article here.